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For the Love of Sleep, Stop Snoozing!

You go to bed. You sleep. And then, some designated amount of time later, your alarm goes off. 

What do you do? 

Is it:

A) get right up and start your day with a smile?

B) Hit the snooze button once and stretch gently before getting up out of bed

C) Hit the snooze button every 5 minutes before eventually dragging yourself out of bed an hour later. 

For many of us (including my beloved husband), the answer is C. 

Today, I will explain to you why this is the WORST answer and give you some tips to wake up with more energy every day!

The part you already know:

We, as a society, are not getting enough sleep. One result of the social patterns and work norms that dictate our lives is that we often stay up later and wake up earlier than we would if we let our own biological systems dictate or sleeping hours. Often we are too stressed to fall asleep easily and sleep deeply. 

This is probably very frustrating for you. I know it is for me. I mean, adulting is hard but I would have thought I’d be able to figure out how to sleep correctly at least. 

The part you might not know: 

Our bodies have systems built into them to help us wake up each morning. Every morning your body starts the wake-up process gradually about 2 hours before you’re ready to get out of bed. Think of it as a machine that’s slowly coming back online. The engines are heating up, the systems are rebooting. It takes a while. 

When it all goes well we wake up feeling refreshed and ready to go, like on a weekend day when you get to sleep in until you awake naturally. (Sorry, parents of young children. You may not remember this one!)

Because we’re not allowing ourselves enough sleep, though, we often set our alarms to go off in the middle of this gradual wake-up process, or often before it’s even started. This is why we wake up so groggy! 

If you hit snooze now, not having gotten enough sleep, you’re likely to fall right back asleep and start a new sleep cycle. When the alarm goes off again your sleep cycle has just begun, and, as luck would have it, this is the WORST time for you to wake up. 

Waking up during the first few minutes of a sleep cycle can trigger something called “sleep inertia”, which is that fuzzy, groggy feeling that makes you feel like you want to go right back to bed, or lay down on the couch for a while. 

That means that hitting your snooze button, for most people, is actually making you MORE TIRED!

What you can do instead:

  1. Set your alarm for the latest possible time you can wake up for the day. If you don’t have time to snooze, you’ll need to wake up when the alarm goes off. You might still feel sleepy if you’re not getting enough sleep in general, but waking up at this same time every day will help your body adjust so that it starts naturally getting tired at the right time every evening. Basically, stop fooling yourself with that snooze button, and just set the alarm later!

  2. If your alarm goes off and you are just not done sleeping, set a new alarm for 20-30 minutes from now instead of hitting snooze. This gives you a longer time in that sleep cycle so that you won’t suffer from sleep inertia when you wake up, instead of waking up 3-5 more times in the next half hour each time your alarm goes back off. This way actually gives you a meaningful amount of extra sleep, about as much as a power nap.

  3. Take an “active snooze” and use that extra ten minutes to kick-start your body’s natural wake-up process. A few minutes of gentle stretching, meditation, or journaling can give you some breathing room and let your body wake up slowly. When your alarm goes off the second time, you won’t have fallen back to sleep and will feel more awake and ready to start your day.

Pick one of these strategies to try this week, and see how your days begin to start with more energy and less brain fog! You’ll have more energy throughout your day, and your body’s sleep cycle will begin to regulate itself to make your sleep better and better over time.

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Travel Happy

Anyone who has ever heard me talk about hygge might know that I'm a bit obsessed with the Happiness Research Institute in Copenhagen, Denmark. The fact that a research group seems to exist purely to figure out how to make us humans happier makes me SO HAPPY!

I've devoured Mike Weiking's books, Hygge and Lykke, and so today when I came across an article he wrote about making travel memories just days before I head out on a trip to NY, of course I had to give it a read. 

 

I had a great travel revelation on my last trip with my husband, and I can say that I love our new mindful approach to travel but it is a bit of a change for me.

I tend to over-plan and be very controlling when I’m traveling. I want to make sure I maximize every moment of my precious vacation time!

That hasn’t really worked for me, though, and what I normally end up remembering from those vacations are the slower moments of downtime spent just hanging with friends and family, instead of the crazy rush back and forth between activities. 

For example, my favorite memory of my husband from our first anniversary trip to Seattle is how he looked laying in the bed of our rented apartment when the light was shining in the window that morning. 

 In a society where we plan our travel around the best restaurants on Yelp and the most instagrammable foods and locations, I’m excited to try a more mindful way of exploring the world. 

In my next trip I’ll be staying in New York City and then at home with my family in NJ for a few days. So, I can’t really follow Mike’s #1 tip of going somewhere new. But I plan to make a point of exploring new places while I’m there. A restaurant I’ve never seen or a park I’ve never been to. Even though I grew up close to New York there are hundreds of spots in the city I’ve never seen. 

I also plan to check in with my senses more often while I’m there. I want to notice what I see, what I hear, what I feel, smell, and of course, taste. I’m planning on taking out my journal for at least one quiet moment each day to note what I’m sensing in the moment. 

I love Mike’s tip about getting a souvenir. My husband and I try to get a Christmas tree ornament as a souvenir of each trip we take together. This way, each year we get to recall all our trips and memories while we’re celebrating and trimming our tree. If I’m traveling alone, I try to buy something I know I’ll use regularly, like a coffee mug or a pencil case, so my memories become part of my daily life.  

The hardest tip for me to follow will definitely be the final tip: Don’t be afraid of things going wrong when you travel!

I’m definitely a hope-for-the-best-plan-for-the-worst type of traveller. I’m consciously working on surrendering more to the Universe and trusting that everything will work out O.K. and that I’ll be fine, even if it seems stressful in the moment. 


How are you planning to make memories during your summer travel? I’d love to know!

Tell me in comments or message me at @megangillman on instagram! I’m also open to all your recommendations about new sights, sounds, and tastes to try out in NYC and NJ!